Life Is Foreplay: Make Life More Intimate

One of the most common issues I hear between couples is mis-matched desire. In other words one person wants intimacy more often than the other. Most often it is women who don’t feel as turned on as often as their male partner, although this can work both ways or with same sex couples.

When working with a client one thing I always say is “life is foreplay”. Learn what makes your partner happy. It can be smiles, touch and kindness. It could be gifts or acts of service. Tell each other how much you appreciate each other, tell your partner how sexy and attractive they are. Send a text telling them how much you like what they do to you. I have loads of ideas, these are just a few, but the most important thing is to learn what kind of foreplay your partner likes and be consistent.

This sexy way of living doesn’t have a time limit. It’s not something you do on Saturday afternoon because you want sex on Saturday night. It’s a way of life that can deliver consistent satisfying sex for both. It’s not a method to get as much sex as possible.

Life is foreplay, if you can live like this, I’m not saying you are guaranteed to have as much sex as you want but the quality and the desire from your partner will be there. Try it and let me know how it goes.