About Anita

My life story has led me to this work. I was widowed in my fifties, having been married to my husband for 34 years. During my grief, I thought about what had sustained a happy and fulfilling marriage. For us, most importantly, was how we repaired after rows and there were many. I realised that we had excelled in communication and had enormous respect for each other. I had no idea at the time that these thoughts would lead me to retrain as a Relationship and Sex coach.

I decided to start dating again two years after losing my husband. The dating scene was unrecognisable from 40 years ago when I previously dated, but I decided to throw myself into it. What I learnt is invaluable to someone in the same position as me, and I decided that my experiences in marriage, dating, and forming new relationships at an older age would be a good foundation to retrain as a dating and relationship coach. I am now in a happy, committed relationship with a new partner.

My mission is to help my clients live a life full of love and joy. I help clients to ask for and receive what they want from their relationships, whether in a long-term partnership, marriage, or dating. My specialism is sex and intimacy. 

I am passionate about the Somatica® Method and have taken the following training: